‘It’s Okay If I Don’t Look A Certain Way; I Don’t Have To Look Like Someone To Be Beautiful’, Says Actor Zara Noor Abbas

Being a sibling of a superstar doesn’t mean that you will also be a star. Your own fate matters a lot in this regards too. When it comes to be successful you should be hard working and lucky to create your own success. Zara Noor also known as Zara Noor Abbas is young upcoming star of Pakistan showbiz industry has background of a star family, daughter of Asma Abbas and niece of famous Bushra Ansari and Sumbul Shahid. She made her debut on TV in Dharkan drama serial aired on Hum TV in 2016. After that she played roles in many dramas and in Films also. She got famous from drama serial Khamoshi as Arsala, recently she is doing drama serial Badshah Begum. She is now a famous actress of Pakistani Drama Industry with a glorious looks and acting now days.

Zara Noor latently did a podcast with Farieha Altaf named “FWhy Podcast” and shared her personal and professional life experiences. Her life is mixed with happiness and sorrows, both experiences are worthwhile to listen and will tell you about real life of a stars.

Childhood Memories

During my childhood I was not abl to understand the popularity of my grandfather Bashir Ahmad. But I have remembered Ashfaq Ahmad and Munno Bhai used to visit our home at weekends mostly. I was too much found of books music and poetry. My grandparents used to live with us being the centre of our family. I was very much fascinated by the fact that a son in law can also accommodate his father-in-law as this unusual in our society. We used to make a lot of fun on social events when Bushra Khal and Neelam Khala used to celebrate Eid with us.

Princess of the Family

I was always my father’s princess which was known by everyone in our family. Along with that you also have so much restrictions and hopes also. I was overly protected but it was for my wellbeing. Furthermore, I couldn’t go out in cinema but my mother used to accompany me. It was quite irritating for me if have to go with my mother in a concert. That’s why I had to introduce as my cousin ‘Guriya Ji’. Nevertheless I was supported by my family’s women.

Life and Career

Usually it’s very easy to cover any circumstances in your life but marriage decision is too much important in the life, is usually good to buy some time for getting into any relation in your life. You should have first a good understanding with someone you are going to marry. As I have not any pressure from my family side but yet it’s hard to know that how your marriage should be a successful one. For instant as soon as boys got graduated they should get a job first, I don’t know why? He should decide his life too. In this regards parents should understand that it should be decided by their children

The Concept of Marriage

In my opinion there is a big difference in a companion and a husband. I think that companion is one who give you strength but husbands are totally different. It’s hard to find everything in a single person. That’s unjustified with a person living with you. My husband Asad Siddique is a very sensible and accommodative person. He boosts my energy level to great extent, so I had to live with a balanced man. His lifestyle is surprising and his believes are too much motivating for me. At this point of time I am in a happy environment. Asad is not too much romantic person but I like his devotion a lot. Before marriage I don’t have much information about him but Bushra Khala sees come good inside him. I too inquired about him from family and friends. Family of Asad is also very cumulative, and I wish we both could live together till death. 

Overcoming Mental Health Issues

My first marriage ended at just age of 25. Just after that I came to know that my mother is suffering from colon cancer. I was very much downhearted, I had no hope. I had to take anti depressant that I didn’t consult with any doctor. In COVID-19, I got anxiety attacks. I had hyper state of mind. When everything was closed down then my husband hold me up by every means

On Dealing With Trolling and Body Shaming  

In my life there was a period when I was trying making everyone happy in my life. But at this stage I believe that if people have different thinking than you its good. It’s good that I am not in a definite state. I had my on looks; I don’t try to be in a certain size to enjoy. Why should I glance like others to look beautiful? It’s not foremost anyway. I have come by intention of who I am.

On Losing Her Child

Asad and I have come across many horrible situations together so we are for any other also. There is an uttermost feeling of disappearance, I am still mourning. Formerly I was criticizing myself, that may be I didn’t eat right, or before pregnancy, I had to loss my weight. I had an emergency case, I don’t want to criticize doctors but I will criticize the system instead. In Pakistan, doctors have too much burden, so you will be just another case study for them. So you should have your doctor’s number first. Then you should have a fixed appointment and then visit. It’s not ideal to wait for long time. Thirdly there should be another plan if anything is wrong with you, ther should be someone to take your decisions.

When I came across about tragedy, I was in absolute trauma. I will miss my lost child throughout my life. My Family was immensely underpinned with me and they hold me up firmly.